RDMA is vital for efficient distributed training across datacenters, but millisecond-scale latencies complicate the design of its reliability layer. We show that depending on long-haul link characteristics, such as drop rate, distance and bandwidth, the widely used Selective Repeat algorithm can be inefficient, warranting alternatives like Erasure Coding. To enable such alternatives on existing hardware, we propose SDR-RDMA, a software-defined reliability stack for RDMA. Its core is a lightweight SDR SDK that extends standard point-to-point RDMA semantics — fundamental to AI networking stacks — with a receive buffer bitmap. SDR bitmap enables partial message completion to let applications implement custom reliability schemes tailored to specific deployments, while preserving zero-copy RDMA benefits. By offloading the SDR backend to NVIDIA’s Data Path Accelerator (DPA), we achieve line-rate performance, enabling efficient inter-datacenter communication and advancing reliability innovation for inter-datacenter training.

In the Fully Sharded Data Parallel (FSDP) training pipeline, collective operations can be interleaved to maximize the communication/computation overlap. In this scenario, outstanding operations such as Allgather and Reduce-Scatter can compete for the injection bandwidth and create pipeline bubbles. To address this problem, we propose a novel bandwidth-optimal Allgather collective algorithm that leverages hardware multicast. We use multicast to build a constant-time reliable Broadcast protocol, a building block for constructing an optimal Allgather schedule. Our Allgather algorithm achieves $2 \times$ traffic reduction on a 188 -node testbed. To free the host side from running the protocol, we employ SmartNIC offloading. We extract the parallelism in our Allgather algorithm and map it to a SmartNIC specialized for hiding the cost of data movement. We show that our SmartNIC-offloaded collective progress engine can scale to the next generation of 1.6 Tbit/s links.