Compute Express Link (CXL) fundamentally shifts the memory abstraction boundary, moving memory management functions from the host CPU to external controllers. While this decoupling allows hyperscalers to integrate diverse media, such as cost-effective, recycled DDR4 modules, it transforms the memory controller into a complex system with new integration challenges. First, we uncover that integrating CXL and memory controller IPs via the industry-standard AXI interconnect creates critical bottlenecks. We demonstrate that variable access latency and out-of-order responses, essential for CXL, can quickly saturate the limited AXI tag space, limiting bandwidth and even causing system hangs in commercial platforms. However, this decoupled architecture also creates a unique opportunity: the CXL controller can exploit its support for variable-latency responses and near-memory processing to implement transparent reliability and security mechanisms. We propose ReScue, a suite of hardware solutions implemented and validated on an Intel Agilex platform. ReScue-R leverages CXL's variable access latency and out-of-order responses to transparently retrieve remapping addresses stored within faulty blocks. By utilizing a Bloom filter to predict faults and minimize overhead, it achieves fault tolerance$9.6 \times 10^{4}$times higher than standard SECDED ECC with only 0.2% performance degradation. ReScue-S addresses security; after demonstrating the first successful Row Hammer (RH) bit flips and physical-address reconstruction on a CXL system, we show that ReScue-S can shape response latencies to prevent timing-based side-channel attacks with only 1.1% performance degradation. Finally, we propose a solution to the discovered AXI-induced system hangs to ensure stable CXL operation.